There is a saying that “men look, women see.” Guys, good looks will make an impression, but the female subconscious inspection include many other aspects that most men are not aware of.
The physical aspects apparently get noticed first before any other personality traits. Women will always look past first impressions, but it does really work in your favour if you manage to get that right.
We definitely notice everything, from what he's wearing to how he speaks and his gestures. So here are the first seven things women notice about men.
Shoes
The first thing a woman notice about a man is his shoes. Did you guess this? The thing is, most women will look at a man from the bottom up. The shoes a man wears are one of the biggest telltale signs of his personality. So always don the right pair of polished shoes.
Aftershave/deodorant or a good cologne
It may be invisible to the eye, but it’s certainly not to the nose. If a woman smells an attractive aftershave or cologne on a man, the said man automatically hikes up a few notches on the attractive-scale. Invest in a good cologne, or deodorant. You don't want her to move six feet away from you before you even open your mouth!
Your greeting.
Honestly? We don’t mind whether you go in for a hug, a kiss on the cheek or a handshake. The most important thing is that you do it with confidence. Don’t go in for a hug then hesitate and stick your hand out for a sloppy handshake – it’s so unpolished and mortifying.
Your hands
This may sound slightly weird, but a woman can tell a lot about a man from his hands. If, as aforesaid, you’re going to go in for a handshake, there’s a high chance we're going to notice your hands. I’m referring to the general state of hygiene that men keep their hands in. Long and dirty fingernails on a man is unappealing.
Your outfit
Your outfit is a huge revelation about your personality. Apparently, your outfit depends on what you’re doing that day but try to keep it well-assembled without any colour clashing. The outfit doesn’t have to be trendy, but an idea of what is trending will help keep you coordinated.
Unkempt hair or unruly beards/moustache
Most women do not prefer unkempt hair or unruly beards/moustache. The recent trend is to just keep it simple, neat and aesthetically appealing. Women don't mind a man with a beard as long as he grooms it and keeps it neatly trimmed!
Posture
We definitely check your posture. If a man stands tall, with his shoulders pushed back, he projects gallant confident. But if you're slouching with your shoulders drooping, it's a sign that you're nervous, uncertain with a low self-esteem, which is a big turn off.
We aren’t shallow but, it will really work in your favour if you manage to get this right. Besides don’t you expect women to be a certain way around you too?
