No, I’m not being partial. Everyone has annoying habits - even girls but we are excused - for now. So from a woman’s point of view, here are five things you should try to put an end to. Even though you might say it’s just a man thing, but if you really want to get into the good books, you should try changing some of this habits.
Thanks for understanding
1. Braggarts
Yes you just bought a new car or you drive a high priced vehicle, your muscles are beefy, you pay a house rent worth three million; your new electronic gadgets are top of the line; but there are ways to put this things across without sounding annoying. Keep it subtle. Don’t shout. And don’t deviate the conversation just to suit your bragging needs. It really rubs the wrong way. Mostly in the aspect of cash. Never start a conversation with a woman with how much you make. It is so not a turn on.
2. Stop the gross habits in public.
Why do you have to stick your hands down your pants, rearranging what you’ve got going down there. It’s so not cool. Please we don’t need to see that. That should be done in the toilet or somewhere more private. How would you feel if we go down on ourselves like that in public?
3. Catcalling.
That just gives us the goose bumps. And not the good ones. It’s demeaning and debasing when you shout out or whistle, when you heckle at a woman like that. There is nothing wrong if you walk up to us, and inquire whatever it is you desire in a polite way. We, the women folk do not like it.
4. Stop poking at our ribs and demanding us to smile.
We have mastered the art a long time ago. It comes with the territory. You don’t need to remind us to smile. We are not grumpy. We are not unhappy. It’s just our face. Our face mustn’t react always to everything you say. If we are unhappy, trust us; you will know.
5. unsolicited nicknames.
Why will someone we just met on the first day call us darling, baby? Speaking on behalf of the female population, calling us such is not something we really like. If it comes out naturally and occasionally, from a loved one, then we’ll let it pass. But when it comes out, from an unknown stranger; its appalling. Putting love or sentimentalism on each end of a sentence doesn’t make you more appealing to us.
Thanks for understanding
1. Braggarts
Yes you just bought a new car or you drive a high priced vehicle, your muscles are beefy, you pay a house rent worth three million; your new electronic gadgets are top of the line; but there are ways to put this things across without sounding annoying. Keep it subtle. Don’t shout. And don’t deviate the conversation just to suit your bragging needs. It really rubs the wrong way. Mostly in the aspect of cash. Never start a conversation with a woman with how much you make. It is so not a turn on.
2. Stop the gross habits in public.
Why do you have to stick your hands down your pants, rearranging what you’ve got going down there. It’s so not cool. Please we don’t need to see that. That should be done in the toilet or somewhere more private. How would you feel if we go down on ourselves like that in public?
3. Catcalling.
That just gives us the goose bumps. And not the good ones. It’s demeaning and debasing when you shout out or whistle, when you heckle at a woman like that. There is nothing wrong if you walk up to us, and inquire whatever it is you desire in a polite way. We, the women folk do not like it.
4. Stop poking at our ribs and demanding us to smile.
We have mastered the art a long time ago. It comes with the territory. You don’t need to remind us to smile. We are not grumpy. We are not unhappy. It’s just our face. Our face mustn’t react always to everything you say. If we are unhappy, trust us; you will know.
5. unsolicited nicknames.
Why will someone we just met on the first day call us darling, baby? Speaking on behalf of the female population, calling us such is not something we really like. If it comes out naturally and occasionally, from a loved one, then we’ll let it pass. But when it comes out, from an unknown stranger; its appalling. Putting love or sentimentalism on each end of a sentence doesn’t make you more appealing to us.
What do you think?
