Monday, 10 December 2018

She's older; he's younger


Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas recent marriage was a lavish affair. And the whole hype stewed up thoughts in my head.
So readers, the question I want to ask, is two fold.
1. He’s way older than her. She’s way older than him. Does it count in a relationship?
2. We are from different religious backgrounds. Does it hinder our relationship, despite mutual bonding?
Counting on your responses and comment.

50 comments:

  1. Huzur dolu sevgi ve mutluluk her daim iki sevgi baglari kuvvetli

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  2. Different for everything - mmmmmmmm then which point they agreed - Or how the chimestry can work 🤔 which bond connected ?!!!

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    1. Not enough sorry - can’t change there mind easy for long term , it’s different between them for everything no single point combatable

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  3. The issues of age is less important in relationship, but we need to know if the marriage involves procreation. if yes, then the lady in question must still be fertile and active.However, the girl shouldn't be a minor.
    Religion is based on what you believe and hope in the life hereafter. I dont think it should be a barrier in relationship because mutual understanding and respect for diversity is key to success of marital affairs. There is a lot of problems in this world and each problem has a unique solution. Maybe that's why we have different religion. We practice a particular religion coz we are comfortable practicing it

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    1. Procreation - there are options of adoption, intro fertilization and surrogacy

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    2. Girl should be minor , mmmmmm not sure why !?? Religion part - yes I agree should not different - ( from logic point ) see the future when have kids from where they will get information to believe !!( from religion point ) I think its forbidden

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    3. Forbidden? Now that's a strong word. The children of such union can decide to practice whichever religion favourable to her/him

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    4. What mean by every problem have unique solution !!! Why unique !! Can have many solutions - ( this why we have different religion ) why ?? Not understand that 🤔 what the relation for all of this with the main subject

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    5. Yes example :- Muslim said it’s forbidin that Muslim girl merry other man with different religion but Muslim man can - Christian said it’s forbidden Christian man or women merry other religion - about children can decide their religion - fine - question at which age they can decide that ?! And till reach that age ( say 18 ) children will follow mom or dad religion ?? U think can follow both till get 18 🤔🤔 very complicated subject

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    6. The way a problem occurs determines how it will be solved. Most of us go to religious place to get a problem solved. Therefore, such a person becomes an addict to such a religion

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    7. Moreover, the person will want his or her household to stick to that way of life,

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    8. Why do humams tend to complicate their lives with so many technicalities?

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  4. Age and religious background matters in a relationship.

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    1. And both parties must be matured. Not child - adult relationship. That I do not support. It's just creepy

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  5. I think 5 to 15 is still okay, for religious issue, there should be strong will to excel on the part of the girl or lady concern

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  6. Issues should be discussed before marriage and compromises reached.

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    1. Exactly. People just give themselves undue headaches over trivialities

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  7. Well I guess it's because the men try to change the religion of the female after marriage.

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  8. I understand, even if the family agree, either of the couple may change the agreement. Sincerity and tolerance matter here

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  9. Suffice to say that all differences in relationship, religion, age, tribe, race do not matter if true love is gotten from a particular person. Remember, its not easy to get one.

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    1. They might not matter but still play a dominant role in future

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  10. The age difference shouldn't be much so as to have good relationship between yourself.
    Secondly, I believe the man shoibe older so he can be the head in all ramifications.

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    1. Head in all ramifications because he is older ? I am not sure I really agree with that.

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  11. In Nigeria our religion has their unique mode of practice. I believe it's better to marry someone who practices same religion so the family belief would be in one direction.

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  12. the problem is old or young, does not make a problem, the important thing is to like it, about differences in beliefs, this needs to be put together, so that there are no one who is harmed

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  13. Sincerity matters. Not trying to shovel a religion down each other's throat

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  14. An acqiacquaint sent this and I agree with his standpoint.
    "Age dies not matter to me. Age is only a number. Religion should never keep two people who love each other apart. Practice whatever religion you want. Just don’t ask or expect anyone else to practice same as you. Children can decide what religion to practice on there own. I don’t believe anyone should ever want to make someone else practice a religion just because they do. I never asked or expected my children to practice a certain religion. It’s totally up to them. I get angry when someone says I should do this or do that because of the religion they believe in. Trying to sway what I believe in is the quickest way to get rid of me.'

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  15. If the love is there.... Nd its genuine nd they both accepts eachoda's differences... They're qood to Go ooo!

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  16. Everything plays a part even though they may not all matter. Age shouldn't be a pre-requisite for relationship or marriage. Understanding, mutual respect are key.

    As for Religious views, the two party have to sit and agree but with religion want deperate. It matters because it will affect belief systems, spiritual exercise and in turn division amongst siblings.

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    1. Understanding, mutual respect are key. I agree with that.
      Division admist siblings? Up to the parents to channel that in the right direction

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  17. Age is not what will depict the glory of marriage but how strong the love is between them, if the love can stand as a boon and they studied each others and live in harmony will bring them together always even if the woman is a decade older than the man

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    2. Age is but a number. What of in respect of religion?

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    3. She being a number is meaningful. But Religion only staes the guidelines and measures that can be used to build and maintain a great and peaceful marriage.
      Look at Prophet Mohammed (SAW), who married a wife older who is 15 years older than him, Religion never take anything to go against them but help to build a successful marriage

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  19. Age doesn't matter in relationship, religious issues should be discussed and analyzed. Family cannot change decisions of the couples if their is strong will to excel, to succeed in their marriage

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  20. Love is more than a conqueror...

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  21. Age is not a barrier but religion is a barrier.

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