I think the men weren’t put on the spotlight on the prior article; Does being a virgin make her a good wife material?
Still on the relationship issue, I think the ladies have a choice to make when it comes to deciding who they want to spend the rest of their lives with. (forever isn’t a shallow thing)
Funny enough, I have heard some single sisters say before they would even agree to go on a date with a guy, he must have the following;
Firstly, he must own car
And secondly, he must live in a well furnished two bedroom apartment at least.
And with those two wonderful attributes, he is Mr. Right to her and her friends. We cant talk virginity here because there is no way to prove that.
However, I wonder how the cash and car is even an attractive feature. What if he spends on you, yet is a brute who lost his punching bag and decides to make you the alternate choice? Or peradventure he is so overly generous with his financial endowment and decides to share the love with other women?
To me, I think the most important is how the man see you - As a human being or an object!
Readers and subscribers; drop in your two cents.
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His bouyant account doesn't make him a husband material. It's a criteria somehow
ReplyDeleteSomehow?
DeleteThat shouldn't be a criteria as it can be attained if worked upon. However, what should be a criteria is his respect and love for youm
ReplyDeleteIn total agreement with you
DeleteIf a lady finds a bouyant guy...well its a good thing...but she must not depend her view on happiness based on the weight of his pocket..a man's financial wealth isn't a criteria to measure a man but its quite important for a man to prepare himself for his home...money is very important at the moment.
ReplyDeleteGood point @Olajide
DeleteEvery single lady has some qualities she looks out for in a man; from reasonable to completely inappropriate qualities. Since marriage, according to the old law isn’t a comfortable or easy union. It entails you taking a decision that changes your life forever. As a result, preparation and careful thought should be highly considered before getting into marriage. In getting into marriage, no matter the pressure that comes from both family and friends, the sensible qualities should be held on to tightly. Judging men by the wrong standards may land you into irreparable mistakes. Example, women who focus typically on misplaced qualities end up suffering woes, especially those who only desire to marry rich men with so much money and to latch on to their wealth. A woman who is only driven by wealth, six packs and the charming appearance of a man and whose love is measured by the size of man’s pockets ends up making huge mistakes in the everlasting union.
ReplyDeleteAnd you hit the nail on the head. Thanks for this... Much appreciated.
DeleteIt's just ONE. I don't think owning a car should be very compulsory though. Character and his ability to take very good care of me matters. The car will come. Uber dey naa😉. Lol. As long as I am comfortable and happy and he makes me a better person. We're good. He should have a good job though, or a legitimate buisiness
ReplyDeleteHe makes you a better person .very paramount .
DeleteAnd legitimate business 🤣
I don't think having a list of material possessions he should have is the right way to go. But I see nothing wrong with having a certain level of comfort or prospect as a criteria. I however think it is also important that you are the requirement you seek.
ReplyDeleteP.S- he can be comfortable or wealthy and also be the nicest person on the planet.
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