Monday, 21 January 2019

Blaming the victim - Can children's provocative outfits be the genesis of sexual Abuse?

There was a recent uproar on social media against a verdict passed by a judge in Iceland.
Reason - the rapist of a minor was acquitted because his lawyer was able to justify his actions. The lawyer persisted the minor was asking to be raped because she wore a thong instead of full panties under her dress.
Ironically, the defendant of the rapist was a female lawyer; thus the uproar.
One of the men on a television show in Nigeria discussing the causes of Children Sexual Abuse, argued it was the provocative outfits they wore that provoked the men into sexually assaulting them.
So, according to the man, its the children's fault and not the men’s depraved mental health.
A quick thought - How do young male children who are also sexually assaulted fit into this ideology?
I’ll just go with what my friend said, as we are of one mind.
A child’s outfit should never be provocative to a mature man who has all his mental thinking faculties straight. If a man notices such stirrings in his loins over a minor due to her purported provocative outfit, he needs to visit the psychiatrist because that’s the awakening of deranged pervert issues.
And I speak of both genders here; because the male child is not left out.
Photo credit: myrepublica.com

19 comments:

  1. I'm holding myself o. It is well with his soul.

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  2. True.....no excuse to rape a minor. I don't seem to understand how a man would be attracted to a minor, to the point of molesting... Smh

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  4. Any adult who looks at a child as a sex object no matter how the child is dressed must be sick in the head.

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  5. There is no reason under the sun for a matured minded man to rape a minor.

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  6. A matured minded person has no cause or claim to be provocative about the indecent of young females. Truly, the outfit might be tempting but a matured thinking person must be able to hold unto himself and if not possible you leave the scene until you are free minded.

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    1. What is tempting about a minors dressing ?

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    2. Whether a dressing is decent or not, the mind of a corrupt brain will still picture the sexual characteristics.

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    3. Explicitly said in the most awesomely way

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  7. When a Man sleeps with a woman, he won't be seen as an animal. But if a man sleeps with a minor, he's molesting a minor. He is not an animal, he is only human with certain dysfunctionsnir mental or psychological challenges.

    We need to not only educate a child, but we also need to orientate and educate folks about mental challenges relating to molestation and exploitation of infants, toddlers and minors. It's getting out of hand.

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    1. It's truely getting out of hand. I think one of this sexual deviants need to be made a public show of. It cortail the others.

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