My friend Ilabeshi, posted this on Facebook.
He said he was appalled beyond words at the senselessness of the post. Note that he is a man who's even shocked at the absurdity.
Personally it's beyond crazy that a woman will leave a high paying job just to satisfy a man's ego or inferiority complex.
What's wrong if the woman earns more? Why does the woman have to be the sacrificial lamb?
Just to sustain a marriage?!!!😤😡
This is my own standpoint but your opinions and comments are highly welcome.
He said he was appalled beyond words at the senselessness of the post. Note that he is a man who's even shocked at the absurdity.
Personally it's beyond crazy that a woman will leave a high paying job just to satisfy a man's ego or inferiority complex.
What's wrong if the woman earns more? Why does the woman have to be the sacrificial lamb?
Just to sustain a marriage?!!!😤😡
This is my own standpoint but your opinions and comments are highly welcome.
Regards a woman quitting her highly paid job for her husband's less paid; a man who genuinely loves his wife won't ask that because the resources are meant for the upkeep of the family. He should be secured in himself and intimidated. It's when he has no confidence, that's when he will be scared
ReplyDeleteI don't a reason for him to be scared if he truly trust his wife but I think he should be scared if and only if, the wife is selfish, stingy and unsupportive.
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DeleteA man should have confidence in himself
DeleteEgo in the man is actually an albatross in most marriages. If the man feels threatened about the wife's financial capacity, they should talk it out instead of adopting emotional bullying tactics.
ReplyDeleteMy question is why should a man feel threatened by his wife's funancial capacity?
DeleteLike the saying goes, he who pays the piper dictates the tune. Finance potentially enables one opinions to be accepted and the more of it you have the more influence you possess. This consequently possess as a threat to others, especially the egocentric husband in this case.
DeleteWell the man has to upgrade or work on himself
DeleteLove and understanding is the major ingredient if I may say.
ReplyDeleteSo you agree that sustaining a marriage is all about obeying and understanding the husband?
DeleteSustaining a good marriage needs understanding on both side, wisdom which is profitable to direct and God who gives grace to all
DeleteUnderstanding in a sensible way
DeleteMy openion is like that :- husband and wife need Psychologist 😊😊
ReplyDeletePlease state your reasons
DeleteGetting a psychologist would not bring a perfect solution but getting a certified counsellor can help it, but note, Counsellors and psychologists doesn't command advice but they suggest advice because Advice is a contract of Adhesion.
DeleteAlright
DeleteReason if the man feel jelous that his women income more than him mean he not have self confidante by himself - if his women gain this income before know him - why he accept her at beginning !!?? - if she gain this income after and he refuse it then he deserve to live in poor life ( crazy man ) he evaluate himself wrongly
ReplyDeleteBull's-eye
Delete😊😊👍👍
ReplyDeleteShe should do what pleases her heart....wat if she enjoys the lesser paying job than the higher one....at times money isnt wat drives people but passion as well.....If d lesser job supports her passion then she should accept it but it wud b stupid to it bcos of her husband insecurity...i dnt think a man in his right sense would request such frm his wife
ReplyDeleteLast sentence is golden
DeleteLooking insightful into this case, the man is acting based on what he has heard happening to some marriages that has this same problem and he acted foolishly by comparing his marriage to others and taking the decision of doing that. Though they might live happilyever after but their Financial Power will never be weak and their marriage will be the rock of financial welfare problem.
ReplyDeleteThanks for this
DeleteMutual understanding n love will conquer all
ReplyDeleteIt's sad
ReplyDeletePitiful
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