Forgiveness means to stop feeling angry with someone or something. Feelings and moods doesn't springs at the expense of words buy by the expense of your thoughts at that instance. Genuine forgiveness doesn't have to come from your discussion with the offender but what you really decides to do within your heart about the case. If you want to forgive, forgive with no discussions about the issue because further discussions about the case will makes you to have more hatred towards the person at the time of discussions. Forgive and show love towards the offender and this can even make them to acknowledge their mistakes and request for utmost forgiveness from you.
I think it requires a certain level of maturity and being a bigger person to forgive without a conversation or apology, but its something we should all try to do(especially for ourselves). What I don't understand is *Forgetting*,when people say forgive and forget. How does that even happen? Selective amnesia?
Forgiveness means to stop feeling angry with someone or something. Feelings and moods doesn't springs at the expense of words buy by the expense of your thoughts at that instance.
ReplyDeleteGenuine forgiveness doesn't have to come from your discussion with the offender but what you really decides to do within your heart about the case.
If you want to forgive, forgive with no discussions about the issue because further discussions about the case will makes you to have more hatred towards the person at the time of discussions. Forgive and show love towards the offender and this can even make them to acknowledge their mistakes and request for utmost forgiveness from you.
I prefer to trash out the case so there is no lingering bitterness.
DeleteYou know, sorta clear out the air .
And that will even make the allow strong harmony to reign in within
DeleteSeems you wanted to write... "conversation "
ReplyDeleteThanks Ike
DeleteI think it requires a certain level of maturity and being a bigger person to forgive without a conversation or apology, but its something we should all try to do(especially for ourselves).
ReplyDeleteWhat I don't understand is *Forgetting*,when people say forgive and forget. How does that even happen? Selective amnesia?
Yes. Selective amnesia to forget that particular hurt.
DeleteNot easy but worth it .
When you can except whatever it is your forgiving, forgiving that person becomes much easier. If you don’t except it you cannot forgive it.
ReplyDeleteTrue
DeleteForgiveness is actually not complete without saying something. It helps to heal the people involved.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you 100 percent
DeleteOne who understands the human nature knows that humans are quick to offend finds the heart to forgive before the offence have been committed..
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
DeleteI think I have to learn that aspect of the human nature
Forgiveness is very key. We have to be able to forgive at all times
ReplyDeleteNo matter the hurt
DeleteNot possible because you need to say something.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteI don't know. I'm not tge most forgiving person
ReplyDeleteHmm, it's a trait that needs to be developed, dear
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